Friday, April 30, 2010

教育篇(二)

上回講完中學.

今回講下入大學情況

加拿大大學之學制 

學制: 4年, 大部分Program都係9月入學, 但不排除有部分program可以容許冬天入學. 

怎樣被大學選中? 

如果由加拿大中學升大學. 在加拿大是沒有公開考試, 只計校內成績黎決定取唔取錄你. 聽落好似好著數, 其實一d都唔係, 中國人之內有句說話叫做"易入,難出"

即係好似可以入到去讀,但好難可以畢業. 好多原因ge,入到大學群埋班frd, 住宿舍,冇旺管, 一有時間就飲酒, 唔知醒就skip堂, 一係就一班人租架車周圍去, 心都散晒, 讀乜鬼書.

所以入到U可唔可以畢業, 除左你有幾勤力, 亦睇你有冇定力.

你會問? 咁grade 12未讀完, 點可以submit d 分俾大學睇呢? 那, lee個就係trick,係一個非常取考, 但係人人都用的方法,絕對係令你可以慳水慳力, 令你grade 12第2個semester唔洗讀得咁辛苦.

basically,就係咁, 學生要o係大概3,4月就要submit d分上網, 同選取大學, 你想讀的大學就會從個web site收到你的分數, 咁第2個semester未讀完,點算呢? 非常咁簡單, 就係用mid term 分作submit, 咁點解咁著數呢? 因為每一科只會愈讀愈難,right? 如果你將一d深的科,例如physics, math放在second semester讀, 咁你只需要submit Mid term exam ge分, 一科野, 去到mid term,深極都有個浦啦, 係咪? 所以你讀到grade 12,2nd semester只要沖頭一個term已經夠晒. 因為如果你有本身成績好的話, 基本上,到5月,6月大學已經會寄信俾你,話你聽佢地取錄左你, 咁到時就算你final exam考到點都唔會影響到你lu,係咪好爽呢?當然咁做係非常衰格, 但係如果你真係去到final exam覺得好攰, 唔想溫得咁辛苦, 但求final exam pass左就算, 你可以咁做. 因為就算你final 考得點差,都唔會影響大學收唔收你. 當然一定要pass啦,因為唔pass,就冇credit,一樣grad唔到ga.

但係, 係有例外, 如果你去到5,6月未收到大學信, 點算? 咁你就要o係final exam搏殺,希望靠後補執死雞, 等7,8月收到信, 機會係有, 不過微. 始終好ge學生, 5,6月多數都收晒. 同埋呢, 如果真係7,8月先收你, 但係好多學生到時已經揀晒科, 你到時想揀的科就又必有得揀, 可以揀的,時間又未必靚. 與其係咁, 不如先苦係甜啦.

o係mid term之前搏盡,之後係安怎無憂lor!!                                                        仲有一樣野,要提醒大家, submit 分上網,揀大學係要收$$,至於可以揀幾多間, 好似冇限制,但係愈揀得多, 愈貴啦,當然. 如果你有信心的話,其實個人建議,揀6間已經夠數.

仲有另一樣野, 如果係外來學生, 係要toefl, toefl有幾難考,大家心裡有數, 好多名U,例如U of toronto, waterloo, queens university, UBC等,對toefl要求好高, 如果想入好U, 就要努力喇, 我當年的制度,係300分滿分,而家好似係120分,但係好似當年咁, 300分滿分, d名U要至少270分先考慮, 你會問,點知呀?

冇錯喇, 要知道一d都唔難, 上網去間U ge program 度,睇下人地ge admission requirement 就知道ga喇.

再唔係, 每年12月到,d university 都會圍埋搞U fair,入去逐間問又得, 又有師兄幫手, 如果你唔知自己想讀咩, 或者唔知個program出路如何, 問佢地啦, 佢地會好樂意答你ga!


另一問題, 可唔可以避左toefl?  

其實答案係YES, 可以避左唔考toeft ,點樣呢?就係你要o係加拿大的中學讀左至少4年書就可以免卻唔洗考toefl 喇, 所以我自己覺得咁, 如果你覺得自己o係香港讀唔到書, 而屋企又可以support, 不如早d離開香港, 認真同大家講, 愈大年紀過去,愈難適應. 事關teofl而家一d都唔易考,好似有埋oral要考, 所以與否怕自己因為toefl成績令自己入到top U,咁不如早4年去外國, 咁咪唔洗難toefl考試.

至於係咪澳洲, 紐西蘭都係咁, 恕我真係答你唔到. 亦怕俾錯資料大家. 對不起,希望大家唔好介意.

另一問題, 加拿大有咩好U?                                        

老生常談的問題, 加拿大好的大學一定有, 每個省都不乏一些好的大學, 但講真, 係咪代表o係toronto 一定要入u of t就好呢? 要睇的就係睇你想入咩program,將來想做邊行?

冇錯,u of T, waterloo, mcmaster, university of western ontario全部都係加拿大有名的university,但係,係咪一定要入到先代表叻,入唔到就代表差呢? 千萬唔好咁諗, 作為父母的你, Or仔女, 千萬唔好覺得,入唔到u of t就代表失敗. 如果你咁覺得, 你會對其他university ge學生係一份唔尊重.

入邊間u ,好睇你想讀咩科, 以上d university 之所以出名人地overall成績好, 但係係咪代表其他U差呢? 好似york U,我相信好多人都未必聽過,但係佢地ge finance, commerce係全加拿大最有名, 平均分要95分以上先可以入到去讀. 咁你話其實間U ge名係咪真係咁重要呢?? 見仁見智喇.

同埋, 揀U,除左揀個U該program出唔出名之外, 仲要睇自己能力, 我想講,入到U,真係好辛苦, especially engineering, bio-chem, life science lee d program,o係d出名的U係好大壓力, 好辛苦, 你如果覺得自己能力未到, 不妨搵一間適合你的大學讀. 如果為左個名而讀, 好老實講, 俾你入到去,應付唔黎, 跟唔上, 冇心機, 士氣低落, 屋企人咪仲難過. 佢地老遠o係香港又幫唔到手, 你忍心咩?


同埋,o係邊度讀U都好, 最後都係靠自己, 唔好期望屋企可以為做些什麼. professor 可以教到你什麼, 要成績好,要靠自己, 人地去飲酒, 玩啤牌, 你咪留o係企溫書lor,如果人地去玩,你又跟住去. 做人要主動, 唔識要問, 最忌一樣野, 就係把口唔開, 內向. 我好明白, especially英文唔係我地first language,有時可能你覺得尷尬,怕俾人笑, 而唔敢主動開口, 我想講, 你唔開口, 人地永遠唔知你諗乜. 笑咪猶得佢地笑lor, 佢地笑仲好, 起碼知道自己讀的音唔準, 即有可以改善的空間.BB仔唔跌,點會識行呢? 你唔讀錯, 又點會讀arm呢?

仲有加拿大都算係一個幾multi cultural ge 國家, o係大學內,有好多不同種族的人一齊讀書, 你覺得自己英文差, 其實佢地都係努力學緊英文, 所以千萬唔好怕人笑. 放膽d去講, 唔識,記住主動開口問人. 咁樣做, 至少你將來出黎做野, 會識得交際,唔會內向,係咪?


好喇,講住咁多先, 下次講下點樣為自己or為自己仔女選擇o係邊個省讀書.下回分解.                        

                                       


Thursday, April 22, 2010

not a good day.

幾日, o係學校發生左好多事.

我有個學生, 原來係俾學校界定為probation student, 由一開始training, 學校就會緊貼佢地的進度. 包括英文水平, training, 上堂.

我之前一直都唔知, 因為這係學生之前的instructor 不是我, 係從我回來後先接收佢.

我自己非常認同佢係屬於能力非常一般的學生, situation awareness 低, 英文能力低. 自信心不足,緊張. 

尋日同佢飛一轉, 真係嚇死我. 叫佢recover from spin, 淨係隻腳有動作, 隻手原來一直都冇control, 親我的唔係點解佢咁做, 而係明明在地上briefing完, 佢已經知道procedure係點,但仍然在空中唔知自己做乜.(其實有後話/)

之後同佢做一個full rotaion, 即spin一圈, 我先做一次. 然後suppose佢跟住做. 誰不知我做完之後, 佢同我話驚, 唔想再做. 咁冇計啦. 我唔可以迫佢. 萬一因為恐懼, 心臟負荷不來, 仲大件事.

結果全程機返機場的時間,佢都非常靜, 粒聲都唔出, 我已經知道佢真係好驚. 算啦. 明白, 唔係個個人受到spins.問題就來, 如果佢克服唔到心理障礙, 佢唔可以繼續training.點算?

我對這個學生印象不差. 佢好尊重我, 有時早上飛,會特登去terminal coffee俾我(遺憾我唔飲得coffee), 下午飛, 又會拎隻banana俾我食. 學習態度非常良好, 永遠唔會遲到, 更經常早到, 更同我講, 其他同學話有我做instructor,佢感到好幸運, 因為跟我進度會好快, 為人nice, kind. 但係原來咁反而令佢感到壓力, 我之後再講點解.  

昨日之後, 剛巧有個meeting with my supervisor about my student's progress. i honestly told her what's going on in the aircraft, wt else i have found about flying with him.

my supervisor said they might have to send my student back to China due to the fact that his skills, knowledge are below standard. She added, they are going to put him on another 4 weeks probation and with an assessment at the end. If they cant see any improvement,he will have to go back to China. She also said not every one can become a pilot, she were the passenger, she wouldn't have the courage to fly with him. 

It's really sad. i have already flown more than a month with him, we have already built up a very good relationship. It will be really upset and devastating to see a student going back to China. Since i am a chinese, i totally understand being able to receive the flight training is the greatest opportunity to change their life. I also understand most of the students are not coming from wealthy families in China. They really need this job to support their family. 

But the supervisor insisted that this is,of course, a difficult decision but sometimes u have to make this kind of decision in your life. It's pain but still.

For me, nothing is impossible. i always believe if you work hard, u will get it. life is simple as it is. I will do whatever i can do to keep him stay in Canada. I swear to God. This is a challenge me and if it fails, it will definitely hurt my student's career. i accept the challenge and i will beat this game.


And today i had another meeting with both my student and another management official to talk about why my student cant move on to the next level.

It was a very emotional meeting. i could see the tears from my student. He said that he's always nervous in the air.He's afraid that he would upset me if he makes mistakes. He respects me ,he cares about my feeling but these exactly create him pressure. Also the students around him always say something bad about him, saying you have John(me) as a flight instructor, you are really lucky, you will be the 1st one to have your 1st solo etc. Again he's stressed. Another factor which increase his stress level is the family. he doesnt want to upset his family,he wants to finish the program with the licenses going back to China.  

I can see that he has so much concerns while he's flying with me, he cant focus on what he supposed to do.

And the report from the management states that he's timid and lack of confidence. i totally agree with that. He doesnt have the confidence to do something but confidence is exactly what we need as a pilot. I really dun know what else i can do to improve his confidence. I am a very relax person, i never yell at any of my students, i never show them an angry face coz simply that wont help their training but i eventually realised why he's so nervous coz i never show him a angry face , that's why he feels guilty. He thinks the instructor is so nice to me, i should do something to impress him.

Eventually i said something. i said it's really doesnt matter how i feel as your instructor. Simply i am a person never get pissed off in the air. It really makes sense if you make mistakes and that's the reason why you are coming to learn. If you made mistakes, we correct you.I also said dont ever care about what other students said about you. Dont ever give them a shxt!! what you need to do is to perform better and keep their month shut.

I think starting from now on, i will apply another method to teach him. I really wish he can stay. He has the passion but he just needs support from us. i wish my capability can do something to change his mind, skills whatnot.

Today i received another 2 students from a new group just arrived 2 days ago, meaning i will be really busy from now on.

Also the coming week, i have a lot of spin flights to do. i am really really sick of doing spins. i hate spins. i can manage to teach but still i dun like it.

the good thing is i am 50 hrs away from my goal so i need to suck it up. i dun care how terrify this exercise it. i need to suck it up in order to achieve my goal.


When the going gets tough, the tough get going!

                                                                    


Monday, April 19, 2010

加拿大生活攻略----教育篇(一)

今次講下教育篇.

當然由細講到大啦.

先講加拿大教育制度.

分為:小學(elementary school), 中學(high school),同大學(university).   

在加拿大, 每讀一年, 我地叫做grade. 並唔係香港的form 幾等等.

小學篇:

以toronto為例,小學係指由grade 1 to grade 8. 大概年紀由6歲到14歲.

而grade 1 等同於香港的小學一年級. 咁樣計一計數, grade 8即係香港中學的中二.

如果係加拿大人的話, 可以選擇公校,英名為public school. 當然費用全免. 而書本亦係免費, 只需要開學時向學校借書, 老師會mark低本書的code and ur name, 年尾還返就得.

中學篇:

以toronto為例,中學指: From grade 9 to grade 12.即香港的中三到中六.

同小學一樣, 學校係會provide books for students except there might be some notes that u might need to pay.

考試: 冇公開考試. 大學考慮學生與否base on academic results,平均分.     

我自己本身就係由grade 11 開始讀起.

中學制度係credit 制. basically 50分為合格, 合格就可以得到一個credit.

如果要中學畢業, 就要有6個grade 12 subject ge credit, 同埋4年內累積30個credits就可以畢業.

每個學年, 有兩個semester, we call it first semester, second semester.

課堂節數: 公校為例, 每天有5節. 其中一節為lunch. unlike HK, 香港會係每一天都有唔同堂數, 即每天要執書包, 但係公校的中學是沒有的, 即星期一上的堂同星期二,三,四都是一樣, 不會有變化直至一個semester 的終結. 所以lunch 的長度同其他課節一樣,因為有些人會係第3堂lunch,有些人會係第5堂先lunch. 亦有些人選擇第一堂就係lunch, 咁變相可以遲一點上學.                    

科目:

選科比香港的制度較為flexible, 中學唔會分為理科班, 文科班, 基本上係自由選擇.所有學生只要在學年年尾submit 你想下一年度讀的科目, 學校就會根據你的選擇, 安排一個schedule俾你.

如果係新生的話, 只要在9月1日到學校的council 同councilor 相討你想讀的科目, 佢地會隨著每一班的有餘學位, 盡量安排你讀到想讀的科目. 因為雖然每一名學生收到schedule,但係並唔係每一位都滿意, 有些同學可能想第2個semester先上該科目, 所以每每在學年初,9月就會迫滿好多想改課節的學生. 為避免人頭湧湧的情況, 每個學生都要make appointment先可以先councilor .

但有些科目係必修, 例如French,每一位學生第一年上中學, 一定要讀french,一定要pass先可以畢業, 如果讀完grade 9 french,有興趣可以繼續, 但如果冇興趣的話, 淨讀grade 9已經夠. 但我當年係唔洗讀, 因為我係grade 11先入學,加上係international student, 所以可以skip.yeah!

另外有些必修的科目如GYM,即係香港的PE,again,讀完一個semester,唔鍾意, 只要pass,之後到畢業之前都可以唔洗再讀.

另外包括性教育, 講開性教育, 這是其中我咁欣賞加拿大教育制度的原因, 我自己覺得香港的性教育制度係失敗. 你見近來,一個又一個初生BB就咁死去就知道有幾失敗. 每年學校只會派社區團體開個講座就叫性教育? 唔係ma?

加拿大的制度, 在grade 9時候, 有一科必修叫做parenting, 包括點樣同人相處, 性教育, 點樣照顧小朋友等等. 係要上足一個semester,即係4個月.again, pass左先可以畢業. 其中一段時間, 老師係要求每個學生上parentings ge學生買一個人形的BB,重量同真的BB相若, 入面其實好似豆袋一樣, 只不過以沙代替. 作用係要佢地將這個BB作真人BB咁樣照顧, 抱著.別以為落堂後就可以放入locker, 佢地要將個BB抱著上其他堂, 如果o係hallway 度俾其他老師見到個學生將個人性BB當作玩具玩, 有得罰. 至於要抱幾耐, 如果我冇記錯, 至少有一個月. 期間會教學生點樣餵奶, 換片等等. 咁樣可以令佢地知道照顧一個小朋友,並唔係咁簡單. 至少唔會好似而家的年青人, 不做安全措施不特止, 生左之後,放入個袋度. 邊有人蠢得咁交關. sorry ,睇到lee d新聞真係好氣餒, 正如上一代話齋, 一代不如一代, 如果人地咁樣話我地的80後, 我都唔會反感, 因為這一代真係有好多唔爭氣的年青人. 抵鬧.

唔講喇, 愈講愈氣憤.

anywayz, 咁你可能會問, 如果個仔,女唔鍾意文/理點算? 要中學畢業,只需要讀一個semester文/理的科目, 那麼grade 10以後就唔洗再讀, 可以選擇自己喜愛的科目,繼而畢業. 另外, 科目亦比較多元化, 連basketball都可以作為一個科目, 即成個semester都係打basketball, 當然期間係接受正統的訓練,戰術, 射籃, 球技等等.

也有為藝術界的學生而設的photography, arts, music等等.

而理科跟香港一樣有bio, chem, physics, 但係for example, 如果你grade 11 physics讀得不好的話, 學校有權唔俾你讀grade 12, 會俾意見, 勸你repeat 多一次grade 11 physics,直至成績上跟到,先俾你再讀. 咁你會問, 咁咪即係repeat多一年grade 11,又唔係bor,其實grade 只代表個學生年齡, 即係咁講, 你讀grade 11 physics,並不代全部學生,都係grade 11年齡的學生(15~6歲),有些學生可能年齡等於grade 10,但係可能grade 10 scicence成績太好, 上半年讀完grade 10 science, 學校可以俾佢o係下半年讀埋grade 11 science subjects.在grade 10, physics,bio and chem係同一堂上,但係grade 11打後, physics, chem, bio就分家, 總共分為3堂. 所以話可能你上grade 11 physics,可能隨時有個屬於grade 10 學生跟你一起上堂.

而數學方面仲搞笑, 在grade 11,math只係一科, 但分為U course,M course, C course

U= university, M = both college and university, C = college.

是程度上的分別, 基本上,大家都係用同一本書, 但係所教的野,有深淺分別.

簡單黎講, c course可能只係教1+1 =2, 但u course會教埋原來0+2 =2.

咁你會問, 點解叫咁分? 因為有些人對數學真係冇乜興趣,但又要math credit畢業, 咁佢地咪可以選擇簡單一點的C course, 但有些人可能一心諗住將來入U, 所以又會選擇讀U course. 咁點解有M course, M course係俾一些企o係十字路口, 唔知自己將來路向的人, 讓他們到grade 12先再作選擇. 

上到grade 12, math又再分家,為分calculus , data management and discrete Math. 至於揀邊個,就係隨住你將入U想讀咩科, 理科當然一定要揀calculus,文科生或者data management會比較適合,當然又要考慮將來你想大學入的program的mini requirement,有些program係指定在中學的時候讀某些科目, 那麼要入的話,就冇得避.

至於文科又有economics, 又有international business, accounting, geography,history, geometrics, canadian and world issues等等.

科目係多元化, 適合唔同學生的需要.

但係所有學生無論將讀U又好, 讀college,又好,要high school grad, 一定要有6個grade 12的credit.


義工服務 

每個學生一定要做40小時volunteering.如果唔識搵, 學校的notice 好多時都會有notice 話邊度要搵volunteer等等. 40小時係原意個學生在high school裡面4年, 每年至少做10小時    

我當年都要做, 半年搞掂做左40個小時. 我當年走左去幫home stay 個仔隊波,做soccer team ge assistant coach, 每星期2,4, 放學就走到教踢波, 同班小朋友玩, 輕輕鬆鬆完成左40小時.

記住係要認可的40小時,唔係你話幫屋企掃地掃足40個小時唔收$就係義工, 該團體要填一份form,跟住要蓋印確實.

你會問,有咩義工好選擇, 有些會幫老人家o係home for age做野, 有些會做baby sitter等等.總之目的就係要令佢地知道對社會有貢獻係每個人的責任.


衣著

大部分public high school都不用著校服上學. 所以衣著真係好隨便, 我試過著有次遲左醒, 咪求其著條boxer 返學. o係學校非常普遍,好多人,especially local canadian,好隨便著條walt disney ge 睡褲返學.

另類學生

除左普通學生外, 有些學校,例如我當年的學校為例, 會一些特殊人仕一齊上堂,佢地會有佢地的課室, 但係依然可以在學校自由活動, 初時我都會有d驚, 但耐左發覺佢地除左係殘障之外, 其實冇惡意,自此更會同佢地溝通, 有時佢地坐住wheel chair開唔到門, 又會幫下佢地.

據我所知,佢地要學的就係一些簡單生活技能, 例如換垃圾袋等等, 所以好多時上上下堂會發覺有個導師帶著一,兩個學生入黎換垃圾袋, 或捧走一些recycle paper and bottles.

我自己幾欣賞佢地做法, 至少俾個機會我地去接觸佢地, 知道佢地原來並唔係想像中的. 而佢地又可以多個機會接觸我地, 將來到出來社會可能做一些簡單工作的時候不會感到陌生.


唱國歌

每天早上, 一定要唱國歌"oh!Canada ...."我咁多年淨係識頭一句同最尾兩句"O Canada, we stand on guard for thee.O Canada, we stand on guard for thee"

每天早上, 要唱國歌, 唔識唱唔緊要, 但要肅立, 就算你o係hollway未行到入課室, 聽到國歌,都一定要企o係原地,等待成首歌完結.

雖然你未必係加拿大人, 但係要人地尊重你, 你先要尊重人地. 入屋嗌人, 入廟拜神, 唔好俾人覺得我地中國人係一個唔識禮貌的民俗.                         
                                    

最後講埋交通,

大家都知道加拿大地大, 返學好多時都要搭車.

每一區都會有school bus 送學生返學,放學, 加拿大居民, 搭school bus係全免, 但如果好似我lee d visa student就要每年$325 canadian.

或者可以搭公共巴士, 可以買monthly pass, 抵搭好多.

             

  

下回講下大學制度, 同埋一些international students 去到加拿大的survival tips and preparation required before entering the country.

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Monday, April 12, 2010

加拿大攻略之簡介.

加拿大

位於: 北美洲的北面, 接壤美國邊境.

人口:3千4百萬人

官方語言: French and English(註由於中國人口眾多, 所以大城市如vancouver, toronto好多地方都有中文顯示, especially China Town,現在甚至911求助熱線也有中文服務).

貨幣: 加拿大元, 大概1加元對7.7 港紙.不過非常浮動, 曾經試過1對5(當年讀書),亦曾上過1對8, 仲貴過美金.

國際電話區號: +1

地區分佈: 大的叫做省(province),小的叫做城市(city). 亦有3個territories位於加拿大北部.

省:總共有10個省分別係:由西至東: British Columbia(英屬哥倫比亞), Alberta, Saskatchewan, Manitoba, Ontario(where toronto is situated). Quebec, New Brunswick(where i am living right, people of nowhere(>.<). Prince Edward Island, Nova Scotia and New Newfoundland and Labrador.

仲有3大territories(Yukon, NorthWest Territories(冬天的時候只有兩個鐘頭太陽,Crazy,其餘時間all dark), and Nunavut. 這個3個Territories 大多居住的都係原住民, 愛斯基摩人亦住o係o個度. 該3個地方由於位處加拿大超北面, 所以除非有特別需要, 否則唔會有人無端端去o個度. 我自己都唔相信我的一位機長朋友竟然o個度工作過5年.俾我,住一分鐘都想死.咁凍. btw,凍係指大概低至零下40-50度. 難以置信.

詳情留待介紹加拿大地理再講.

交通: 飛機, 火車, 巴士, 或自駕(左呔) 地鐵在加拿大有唔同叫法,亦不是所有城市都有, 只有大城市如vancouver, toronto, montreal有. 但各地方有不同叫法,例如toronto 叫subway, montreal 叫metro.但都指地鐵的意思.

入境:擁有香港特區護照可以免簽證入境逗留6個月, 如其他證件或需要visa, 詳情請向各大使館查詢. 如果想在加拿大工作,或讀書, 需要working visa/ study permit.

稅項: 加拿大係有sales tax,again各省都有不同. 因為唔係加拿大政府收, 正確黎講, 係加拿大省政府有份收. 所以唔係個個省一樣. 大概13-4 % of the price.

Time Zone: 西岸大概慢香港16小時, 東岸慢香港12小時, 當然加拿大係有冬,夏令時間. 如toronto現在就比香港慢12小時. 但到左冬天就會比香港慢13小時.

暫時講住咁多,下次講下生活方式.

lee個係northwest territories ge capital, yellowknife,一望出去, 乜都冇, 我想不想我們亞洲人所能生存.

    



Sunday, April 11, 2010

搞搞新意思

飛行生活依然平淡. 仍然係飛.

不過仲有大概70個鐘飛, 飛夠就可以move on.

所以突然有個意念o個blog 度加插一個主題就係"加拿大生活全攻略".

原因我耐不耐都收到朋友詢問加拿大的生活,讀書如何等等, 加上我留意到黎我個blog的blog友有父母級, 也新婚朋友, 亦有唔少求學的學生哥.

難保大家有一日有興趣移民加拿大生活, 或者學生們想去加拿大讀書,繼續學業. 所以決定不如趁而家開一個新主題介紹下加拿大, 同埋講解下加拿大的生活, 始終西方社會,好多生活上細節同香港好唔同, 亦會講下一些在加拿大的生活的冷知識. 一d旅行未必需要知, 但如果長久在加拿大生活應該要知道的知識同埋生活技巧.


大概的topic有:

升學

飲食文化

交通

稅務

天氣

制度

地理環境 

居住

移民 等等.

隨著日子愈久,我諗到d新野,會加上去.

各位爸爸媽媽, 新婚夫婦, 學生們, 如果有咩問題關於去加拿大居住, 升學,甚至旅行, 都誠意希望大家提出發問, 私人留言亦可.

而其他加拿大朋友, 如果有什麼小tips亦歡迎提出, 幫下大家手.

希望我地的資料可以幫到各對加拿大有興趣的朋友.

由於我只係o係加拿大住過, 所以到其他國家如澳洲,紐西蘭等之問題, 恕我未必能夠答到你, 亦怕俾錯答案, 引導錯誤, 不過亦可以嘗試發問.


                                                       


Thursday, April 1, 2010

生日的意義.

話說早幾日係我的生日. 十分低調. 由唔知幾時開始, 我覺得生日已經不重要, 隨時年紀的增長, 更加覺得生日只係一日. 又係24小時, 有何特別呢? 所以每年生日都會好低調 .當然我這一番話不代表任何人, 我相信好多朋友仍然會在生日的時候一班人出去慶祝,食飽飲醉. 但我自己可能受一些年長的朋友影響, 自從開始學飛之後, 就漸漸覺得生日咪只係一日. 如果朋友向我說聲生日快樂,我會感到快樂.如果忘記左,亦唔緊要.  今年, 我甚至連自己生日就到都唔知, 唔係講笑, 認真. 都係朋友提一提我先知道, 係bor,就到bor.

我係一個開心的人. 每一日我都會盡量令自己感到快樂. 所以在我心目中, 只要係快樂的, 每日都係生日. 我亦係好易滿足的人, 對食, 物質不具太大要求. 今年生日,我冇特別食到咩好野, 同平時一樣, 買左罐罐頭湯飲,有d pasta,有d肉,幾好味. 禮物, 我從來都唔要求生日有咩禮物收. 袋, 衫, 電子產品, 我一概都唔會特別想收到. 其實一句happy birthday,我已經滿足. 屋企話生日bor,寄d野過黎, 我都話加拿大咩都有, 唔洗寄, 事關寄一次都唔平. 無謂浪費金錢, 好多野, 有心就得. 就咁聽,

大家好似覺得我好depress咁,邊會有人唔鍾意慶祝生日ga?邊會有人唔鍾意收生日禮物ga? 我每日過得好開心, 係有壓力, 但都好快樂, 我有錫我的屋企人, 朋友, 同埋穩定工作, 已經係最大的禮物. 可能o係加拿大住得耐, 對衣著冇乜要求. 總之著得上身, 感覺舒服就夠. 銀包,袋等, 我又唔特別好, 總次有一個, 用得到, 咪得. 洗乜買呢?我相信我這個理論o係大部分朋友心目中用不著.如果用得著的話, 香港的零售業就會好慘淡.. 可能受到加拿大人的感染, 有時見到佢地著我好簡單出街, 就會覺得搞咁多做乜, 咪又係出街. 所以自然對衣著冇乜要求. 但返到香港, 一個好現實的社會, 係一個"先敬羅衣後敬人"的社會. 著得簡單, 求奇, 出街都會俾人望. 會俾人覺得唔識著衫. well. i guess this is so call "cultural difference",right? 

anywayz,今次生日比其他生日唔同, 係在於個數字. 24. 係一個好奧妙的數字. 如果以生肖計, 即係人生行左兩個圈, 又返到起點. 又回到虎年.回想12前, 只係一個剛踏入中學, 乜都唔識的傻仔, 12年後, 原來已經讀完書, 有工作在手. 好神奇. 但神奇之旅仲未完,

我自己覺得人生最大變化的12年係由24歲到36歲這十二年. 24歲的你,我可能仲係讀緊書, 搵緊工, 或者做緊野. 但係到左12年後的你, 可能到時身邊已經有另一半, 已經成家立室, 甚至做左人地的爸爸,媽媽, 到時的負擔一定比現在大, 現在極其量係要俾$$屋企, 但12年後, 除左俾屋企, 又要俾老婆, 仔女. 又可能咩住層樓,車到時o個種負擔肯定比現在的大幾十倍. 24歲的你,可能仲好有精力,放工後happy hour,但到左36歲, 你個心可能已經去左屋企度, 放工寧願快些返屋企見下個小朋友, 睇下個老婆./公. 我個人十分期待這十二年, 應該會比較有挑戰. 同埋需要好多思想的進步, 計劃先可能令這十二年過得更有意義同快樂. within 這個range 的朋友,你地準備好未? 實行中的朋友, 計劃順利ma?

一齊努力, 不讓時間白過.